I believe that we contain within ourselves and our communities what we need to experience healing and that my role as a therapist is to facilitate that healing process collaboratively with you. You are the expert of your own experience, and I recognize that the survival strategies and sources of resilience that have allowed you to reach this point in your life are incredible strengths.
A session with me might include:
Somatic (body-based) practices that can help you feel less overwhelmed and connect more easily to good feelings
Curious, non-judgmental exploration of different parts of you and your experience that relieves distress, allows you to relate to yourself in new ways, and lets you engage in your life with more ease and flexibility
Identifying helpful and unhelpful patterns in environments, relationships, thoughts, and behaviors as well as strategies for change
Developing goals that are important to you and creating realistic and achievable action plans to accomplish them
I integrate several types of therapy and tailor my approach to be most helpful for you. My education as a therapist has been grounded in neuroscientific, somatic (body-based), feminist, multicultural, mindfulness, cognitive behavioral, parts work, and harm reduction approaches to therapy. I am in an ongoing practice of decolonizing my approach to therapy and welcome you to bring traditional, ancestral, and spiritual healing practices that are authentic to you into our therapy work.
I have particular training in Sensorimotor Psychotherapy, Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Lifespan Integration, "parts work" informed by Internal Family Systems (IFS), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and Motivational Interviewing. I also have training in adapting these therapies for online therapy.
My areas of focus in therapy include:
Trauma: this may include specific difficult experiences you've lived through, intergenerational and historical trauma, and societal/cultural trauma related to oppression (such as racism, ableism, cissexism, sizeism and fatphobia, etc.)
Anxiety, stress, and burnout
Navigating big life changes and cultivating resilience
Identity exploration (race, gender, sexuality, disability, etc.), including impacts of experiencing privilege and oppression
Chronic illness and chronic pain
Perfectionism, self-criticism, and over-thinking
Attention and executive functioning
Navigating the world as a neurodivergent and/or highly sensitive person
Building skills for healthy relationships, including polyamory/ethical non-monogamy
Exploration of sexuality and eroticism, including BDSM, kink, and intersection with lifestyle (for example, Pups and Handlers, Ageplayers and Caregivers, Leather folks, lifestyle power exchange relationships, etc.)
Sustaining action for social change (including developing anti-racist practice as a white person)
My approach is social justice oriented, sex worker affirming, sex and body positive, and weight neutral with a Health At Every Size lens.
Accessibility in Therapy
Everyone deserves to participate in therapy that works for them. I prioritize creating a therapy environment that works for many different people - for example:
I invite you to move around, stim, fidget, eat and drink, and engage in simultaneous activity (for example: coloring, LEGO builds, etc.) when it's helpful to you during our appointments.
My video call platform allows you to turn on live captioning of our conversation during appointments.
We can decide together how we talk in therapy - for example, using direct language or tone tags, using or not using eye contact - so that our communication is clear and easy to understand.
You are always welcome to speak first in whatever language feels most intuitive to you (whether I understand it or not) before we follow up together in English.
If you have questions or concerns about how virtual therapy can meet your access needs, please let me know.
En este momento, solo ofrezco terapia en inglés porque todavía estoy desarrollando mi fluidez en español. Sin embargo, hablo y entiendo español conversacional, y le invito a compartir en español o "spanglish" cuando le importa durante nuestras citas.
Si está buscando un(a) terapeuta que ofrezca terapia en español, estos sitios le permiten buscar por idioma:
LatinxTherapy: https://latinxtherapy.com/find-a-therapist/
Inclusive Therapists: https://www.inclusivetherapists.com/
TherapyDen: https://www.therapyden.com
Multicultural Counselors: https://www.multiculturalcounselors.org
Psychology Today: https://www.psychologytoday.com/
"Caring for myself is not self-indulgence, it is self-preservation, and that is an act of political warfare." Audre Lorde
Nonbinary therapist queer therapy in Seattle, Olympia, Vancouver, Bellingham, Yakima, Spokane